1) victims don't take responsibility - they cannot accept, or rather won't admit they contributed to a problem. To pretend a victim usually makes others pity them, and they make use of people heart to support their wrong doing.

2) victim has a stagnant life - they will never make progress in their lives because they believe they are at the mercy of everyone and everything around them.

3) victim will not free the "blame" that they put on others - they viciously use the blame as a weapon so that no one dare to hold them accountable for anything. In another word, back to number one, because they won't take responsibility.

4) victim has low self-esteem and poor personal development - they are unwilling to grow out of their comfort zone because they do not believe they have the capability to. They again, blame it on their parents, their siblings, their schools, the society.. But not themselves.

5) victims are powerless - yet they often try to be manipulative to get what they want.

6) victims are over sensitive - whenever there are different opinions or criticism, they think it's all about themselves.

7) victims feel sorry for themselves - they pity themselves a lot, for losing their jobs, for not earning much, for having to pay for their own school fee because they don't have rich parents, for having such a body shape.. They act like they cannot fend for themselves, someone is accountable for what they are going through.

8) victims are always comparing - and when they happen to be win, they feel powerful and criticise others.

9) victims are always complaining - they will find their ways to complain on one thing even from something perfect

10) victim is a critic - they feel the need to put others down and find fault in others to feel superior.

11) victim think they are perfect - that's why they will not take any blame and get someone to take up all the blames

12) victim cut people out of their life - instead of solving the issue, they use their emotions to deal with it

13) victim are storyteller - they only tell the part of the story that makes them look like a victim, and cut the story part that they did wrong. Just to look perfect, victim.

In a nutshell, the fake victim will end up facing painful consequences in their life and relationships if they carry on with such behavior. If you are protecting a so-called pitiful victim, make sure you hear the full story. Open all your 5 senses to understand what exactly happen, don't just see her cry, hear her whine, taste her tears, touch her hand, smell her saliva.